Selfishness blinds the human being, up to the point that is impossible to him/her to understand that "laying down the hand for someone is not extending yourself". He only thinks in his "right" to possess and deserve.

To Be has certain merit because it is the product of a hard Work on oneself, but the man is used to forget those things that demand voluntary and conscious efforts, therefor the purpose is transformed from Being to keep Being, to keep oneself Being is -with no doubt- the true purpose. I see it like the love at first sight, it exists but nevertheless what is really extraordinary is the love existing between two beings that have been looking to each other through many years.

I see the lives of those who are very careful of not making mistakes; they try to look themselves as "well behaved" people before to the others, they feel themselves proud of not have been throughout the fear, the pain and the shame, without a real life, I know, I know it well: They have never taken any risks and they will never talk with certainty about the Way , because they haven't started to walk yet. With all their ignorance they will dream that they know the Way.

The life system sinks the man so much that when the man involves himself into "win his life", he does not take the time to live his life and suddenly, fifty years and counting, the children, they don't know them, they've already grown and gone, also the energy and the health are deteriorated and the load of actions is heavy. 

The love that has its maximum expression on giving and serving and that is spilled by those who have come to Be and experimented the inner pleasure of it, they found themselves trapped into ignorance of those who put everything at the same level, the extraordinary and the ordinary, because the love is chained with contracts and the work they soil it with a price, and they size your love and your importance by the money sign that represents you and if you don't have much, you are not worthy. It is absurd this absurdity y ghostligy of the actual world.

You will be able to do what you propose to do if through Work on oneself you become to Be calm of spirit. Your own inner peace is that bright in your eyes, that strength in your attitudes, that irresistible push of Will that makes possibes to you to concrete your ideas.

Those who are calm in spirit, those who are quiet in themselves are natural born fighters, they have spirit strength, entusiasm, constance and coherence. Without this the human being "dreams" with Being and only lives of excuses and deviations.

To do our duty is what we must, leaving aside all what we want, wanting or not, moreover it is required much character to keep oneself away from temptations that makes to what we are not but we think we are, feel good. 

The grade of love we give depends on the level of being of everyone. He who is its own Master, he never gives what he feels waiting for something in return. What is given it must be sincere, without any hidden intentions, otherwise it shouldn't be given. If after giving love to someone, that someone becomes against ourselves, is his own decision and responsibility, never ours. Love is the pleasure of serve and being alive.

The advice has to be given to anyone but knowing, according to his nature, that the things well based and without the eagerness of impose and free of violence, are concepts that the human being accepts easier than it is thought. The hearts are like the flowers, they keep themselves open to the dew smoothly fallen, but they close before the storm.

The steel and the men they forge in fire, that is why I see the challenges that the life presents to us, like the fire that helps us to know what we are made of and we discover aspectos of ourselves that we didn't know, this lets us know what is beyond the established, I mean of the "permitted" of those who want to permit us and many do not risk to act without permission. The are so careful of "not doing bad" that rarely get to do something.

if fixed up the joints are vaguely notorious it will never have the beauty that once had. That is why we must take care of our mouth and emotions and remember the beauty of friendship so it allows us to avoid explotions and we lose that valuable treasure.